I have always considered my dogs fairly well trained. Abby went to puppy school. Redford had one lesson on not pulling on a leash which didn't really pan out. They all come when called from the backyard. They sit, shake, and lie down for cookies. Abby learned 'drop it' and 'leave it'. both very usefull things. They have learned to go into a bedroom when someone comes to the door, which seemed easier than making them stay back. The only problem has been that Redford goes nuts over other dogs and cars. He was always sort of embarrassing to take to the vet, and I couldn't take him for walks because he would go ballistic at other dogs barking. When my one daughter lived with us for a while, Redford and Stuart, her Jack Russell, got into a fight. We contributed that to the fact that they were too similar. Both males, both terriers, both used to being the "alpha" dog of the family.
Time goes on and all is okay until last month when Leann moved back home. While it's a temporary arrangement, it will last for a few months. We didn't anticipate any problems as her dog, Henry, is a pug and is stupid and docile. Well, it didn't take long before we had an incident with Henry and Redford. After breaking up a couple of fights and playing "musical dogs" my frustration level was too high. We were not making any headway. So I felt I had to get help.
Enter John Lopez. John has his own dog training business called Standing OBEYtion. He's really nice and seems to really understand dogs. He came out here to help with our entire "pack". That includes at the moment, 3 dogs, 5 cats, 2 toddlers and 3 adults. He understood that our problem was not going to be solved by dealing with only Redford. Everyone had to be part of the solution. I was amazed at how he dealt with each dog differently based on that particular dog's personality and needs. He made us realize that Henry has a fear of unknown people. I was also amazed at how he was able to get Redford to cooperate. He left us with techniques and the assignment to walk them every day.
He was here on Thursday. It's Sunday morning and I'm feeling a mixture of frustration and resolve. The walks have gone better, but still have a ways to go. We have still had a few altercations and have learned that we are unprepared to deal with them unless Leann and I are both at home to each grab and correct a dog, thus we still play musical dogs at times. I have only called John twice, but we talked about calling him a couple other times. I wanted instant gratification because that seems to be the American Dream, but, realistically, I know this is going to take some time. I will be so glad when we have made more progress. We are planning on taking Henry and Abby to John's socialization class on Monday. I think Redford needs another week of walking before we try that with him. We called John to solve the one problem of fighting, but he has show us the light of what it can be like taking nice walks and having calm dogs in the house. Now, I want all of that.
I love my dogs and it reminds me of how we feel about our kids. We want so badly for them to be good and for others to see them at their best. That's not life. Kids and dogs need rules and discipline as well as love. We do what we think is right, with the best of intentions, but sometimes it's hard to distinguish when we are lacking the correct balance of rules and love.
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